Like just about any other week, this week marks another one of those awareness periods. This one is National Eating Disorders Awareness Week, by the National Eating Disorders Association.
Normally, this observance would be relegated to back along with poison prevention and kidney health. That's not to say that they aren't important -- they all are -- but I'd don't see any reason to chime in on all of them. This time, it did jump out at me. Here's why.
As I started this blog and looked for pictures that I could use to add some color to my not-so-colorful words, I discovered that Tumblr is a great place to find those images.
In case you aren't familiar with it, Tumblr is a social media platform that is kind of a cross between Facebook and Pinterest. It is very image-friendly with ability to also post text, links, quotes, and videos. You create an account where you can "follow" any number of "blogs" that are maintained by other users. Users can add comments or share your posts -- "reblog" using Tumblr terminology -- for their followers to see.
Note: A word for the wise, Tumblr can become very "not safe for work" very quickly -- particularly when looking at topics related to the human body, like fitness. Be careful who is around when you try it out at first.
In finding all of the cool images that I use for this blog, I noticed a troubling trend. There are a lot of users who purposely promote eating disorders like anorexia and bulimia. They have usernames that are variations on ana(anorexia), mia(bulimia), starving, skin and bones, wasting away, dead inside, translucent, suicide, and skeleton. I even found a post today by someone looking for an "ana buddy" to support each other through their knowingly unhealthy weight loss.
Here's a sampling of what I found there today. You'll note I'm not including links to the source as I normally would. I'll provide examples here but I refuse to even implicitly support such content by linking back to it.
|We've all heard this message presented as a bad joke in teen movies, but this is for real.|
|We would all like to think that this was meant to push readers away from self-harm through eating, but we would be mistaken. This image is more of a dark realization of what a "pro-ana" person sees as perfection.|
The other problem is that a lot of well-intentioned content is reinforcing the unhealthy message. After all, a trick that helps a dieter avoid an unhealthy snack on the way home from work and also help a sufferer skip a meal. A motivational message encouraging an overweight reader to stick with it can encourage a sufferer to, well, do the same. Some examples:
|This is the sort of thing I've learned not to post. It's a fine line and here is where I draw it.|
my Tumblr blog.
To show that this community continues to evolve, there has been a new trend in concern about a person's "thigh gap" -- the gap between a person's thighs. This Huffington Post writer says that the trend dates back to the Victoria Secret fashion show last December. Presumably, girls aren't thin enough unless they have a gap between their thighs when they stand up. Now, some women will have the gap while others won't. One expert compared it to having freckles. The problem is that some women think they are fat or overweight if they don't see that gap.
|The person who posted this wants to be the one on the left.|
The NEDA asks everyone to do "just one thing" to help raise awareness. And from what I've seen, the awareness is needed. So, this blog post is my one thing. What is yours? Maybe you could read the warning signs and make sure your children or friends children aren't displaying them? Maybe forward some info to a few friends who would benefit from the knowledge?
Also know this.. Just like any other trouble, help is just a simple Google search away. Or, if you're really lazy, here's the likely result of that Google search: